Can you read minds? You can with a little practice and the right techniques. Here are a few of the easiest ways.
I hope you won't be too disappointed when I tell you that you'll never read minds like Mel Gibson in "What Women Want."
However, you can learn how to get a better idea of the general state of mind and receptivity of the person in front of you. Lets jump straight to one of the fun ways.
Watch Their Eyes to Read Minds
A person’s pupils dilate when they’re aroused, interested, or receptive. If you notice their pupils enlarging, it’s a good sign—they’re likely into what they see or hear.
Try this: Look in a mirror and think of something that excites you, whether it’s a romantic interest or your favorite hobby. Notice how your pupils grow. This reaction occurs because pupils dilate when we see something we like.
To apply this, observe how someone’s pupils change as you talk to them. If they dilate, they’re likely engaged; if they contract, they might be disinterested (unless there’s bright light).
You can go deeper by using this technique during conversations. Mention different topics or describe various scenes, and watch how their pupils react. If their pupils shrink when you mention skiing but enlarge when you talk about a beach, you’ve likely discovered a preference.
This mind-reading trick is easy to test and refine. Practice with friends whose interests you know, and observe their pupils as you discuss different topics. See if visualizing something like "Remember how your car looked" elicits a pupil response.
Reading minds isn’t just about pupil size. Noticing what someone is watching can also reveal their thoughts. What kind of women does a man look at? Does he pay attention to the game on TV? Observing where their eyes go can tell you a lot about what’s on their mind.